People think losing weight is hard. And it is. But I will tell you that it’s easier than you think it is. You probably think it’s hard because you’ve tried going on a diet before. You might’ve lost a few pounds, fell off the wagon, and put it all back on. Been there. Done that. Many times.
Going on A Diet
In the beginning, I started observing people who looked like I wanted to look. I watched them. A lot. It was probably super creepy. I noticed that they ate reasonably healthy most of the time, but they never said they were “on a diet” (even though by watching their eating habits, you’d probably have thought otherwise). They also never had large portions, usually skipped dessert (except on special occasions), and exhibited dozens of other behaviors that people on a diet also had—with one exception: they don’t call it being “on a diet.”
Eating like they’re on a diet is just the way they are. It’s the way they live. They know if they eat like crap, they’ll feel like crap, and eventually, they’ll look like crap.
Changing The Way You Eat
If you want to look like a healthy, fit person, you’re going to have to eat and act like a healthy fit person… and you’re going to have to keep doing that for as long as you intend on being a healthy, fit person. You don’t lose the weight and then go back to what you did that made you fat in the first place. That’s called yo-yo dieting. It sucks. Bad.
Eating healthy doesn’t mean you have to order a salad for every meal, you never get to eat a Big Mac, and you never get dessert ever again. You just have to figure out how to fit those foods in when they’re appropriate and learn how to say no when they’re not. It means that if you decide to eat something unhealthy, it’s because you DECIDED to, and not because of cravings or because you were weak.
And that is how I lost almost 100 lbs in 13 months. That is why I don’t believe I’ll have any trouble whatsoever keeping it off. I fully understand what got me into the mess I was in. I know how I got out of it, and I now know how to stay out of it.
If you’re just getting started, you’re not going on a diet. Don’t tell anyone you’re going on a diet. You tell them that you are changing the way you eat.
Stay tuned. I’ll go through the details of exactly what I did when I started changing the way I ate. It was simple, and I was never hungry. Any diet that leaves you hungry is just that—it’s a diet—and we’re not dieting, right?